Mark was late, very late, for an important meeting.\u00a0 He had become tied up in traffic on the freeway and now he was certain that one of his most important clients was waiting for him, as he made his way through the crowded city streets from his parking garage to his office building.\u00a0 As he approached the building he saw in the crowd of people in front of him a familiar character.\u00a0 It was Weird Wally.\u00a0 At least that was the name that many of the people in Mark\u2019s office had given to the homeless, emotionally unstable, man who frequented the area outside their building.\u00a0 Weird Wally was always trying to get people\u2019s attention, trying to engage them in conversation.\u00a0 \u201cDo you want to see my treasure?\u201d he would say to anyone who would listen.\u00a0 It seemed that Wally\u2019s treasure was located in the college notebook that he held very close to his dirty clothing.\u00a0 Although there had been some conversations in the office building about what was in that notebook, what exactly it was that Wally considered his treasure, no one took him up on the invitation to look at it, because they simply did not want to get involved.<\/p>\n
\u201cOh no,\u201d said Mark to himself as he saw Wally coming towards him.\u00a0 \u201cI really don\u2019t need this today.\u201d\u00a0 But Wally came right up.\u00a0 \u201cDo you want to see my treasure?\u201d he said.\u00a0 Mark did not respond.\u00a0 \u201cPerhaps he\u2019ll just go away,\u201d he thought.\u00a0 Wally insisted, \u201cDo you want to see my treasure?\u201d\u00a0 Mark had to stop at the curb to wait for the light, and Wally walked right up behind him.\u00a0 \u201cDo you want to see my treasure?\u201d he said.\u00a0 Still Mark did not respond.\u00a0 So Wally shifted his strategy.\u00a0 \u201cWhat\u2019s your name?\u201d he said.\u00a0 Mark again held his breath.\u00a0 He didn\u2019t want to get involved.\u00a0 \u201cWhat\u2019s your name?\u201d said Wally.\u00a0 \u201cWhat\u2019s your name?\u201d<\/p>\n
Then perhaps out of frustration, or a little compassion, but clearly with a certain amount of surprise, Mark found himself answering.\u00a0 \u201cMark, my name is Mark, Mark Fillmore.\u201d\u00a0 \u201cHello Mark.\u201d Said Wally.\u00a0 \u201cDo you want to see my treasure?\u201d\u00a0 Now that the conversation was begun, it seemed inappropriate for Mark to break it off.\u00a0 \u201cNo Wally, I can\u2019t see your treasure today.\u00a0 I have an important meeting.\u00a0 Maybe later.\u00a0 Maybe next time.\u201d\u00a0 With that the light changed and Mark dashed across the street into the office building with Wally calling behind him, \u201cGoodbye Mark.\u00a0 Maybe later.\u201d<\/p>\n
That was the last that Mark saw or even thought about Wally for several months.\u00a0 But one day as he came to work and turned the corner, he saw an ambulance with a number of police cars in front of his building.\u00a0 Running into a fellow worker he asked, \u201cWhat\u2019s this about?\u201d\u00a0 \u201cOh it\u2019s Weird Wally,\u201d said one of the workers.\u00a0 \u201cHe seems to have rushed out in the midst of the traffic and was hit by a car and killed.\u201d<\/p>\n
Mark was surprised by how deeply this news affected him.\u00a0 He stood in silence and watched as the ambulance pulled away.\u00a0 When he turned to go into the building, he saw in the gutter a college notebook.\u00a0 It was Wally\u2019s.\u00a0 Mark picked it up and saw that on the cover was written in an uneven hand, \u201cMy Treasure.\u201d\u00a0 Mark opened the notebook and inside was a single page.\u00a0 At the top of the page it was written \u201cMy Friends,\u201d and under that heading there was one entry, one name.\u00a0 It was \u201cMark Fillmore.\u201d<\/p>\n
How much power does one simple action of kindness carry?\u00a0 How much does it cost us to offer it?\u00a0 Each day we have hundreds of opportunities to give ourselves to others and most of those opportunities cost us hardly anything: a few minutes to listen, to advise, to support, to care.\u00a0 Perhaps, because these opportunities cost us so little, we conclude that they do not mean very much.\u00a0 But that would be an error.\u00a0 Because sometimes a simple action of kindness that costs us very little can have a profound effect on another person.<\/p>\n
That is the experience that is relayed in today\u2019s gospel.\u00a0 Indeed the four friends of the paralytic did take some time to carry him to Jesus.\u00a0 And when they could not get to Jesus, they opened the roof so that they could lower their friend down.\u00a0 But\u00a0 the cost of their action was insignificant compared to the result which came from it.\u00a0 It cost those friends a few hours of their time.\u00a0 But their friend, because of their kindness, was able to walk again.<\/p>\n
Today\u2019s gospel reminds us that every action of generosity and kindness has a power and sometimes a power greater than we can imagine.\u00a0 The gospel, therefore, invites us to take the time to listen to a friend, to read to our children, to make a phone call to a relative who is struggling, to write a note to someone in grief.\u00a0 For a few words can dispel loneliness.\u00a0 An ounce of patience can prevent an argument.\u00a0 A few minutes of time can speak hours of love.\u00a0 So whether it is a stranger who we meet on the street or someone in our own family, we need to remember that our most simple actions do have power, the power to carry others into the presence of Christ.\u00a0 And that is no small achievement.\u00a0 Because, in the presence of Christ, we can find healing, we can accept reconciliation, we can discover life itself.<\/p>\n
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Two friends were hiking in the mountains when one of them was suddenly bit by a rattlesnake. The other said, \u201cJust be calm, I\u2019ll run back to the town and find a doctor.\u201d\u00a0 So he ran back a couple miles to a little village where he found the only doctor, who was in the process of assisting a woman with childbirth.\u00a0 \u201cLook,\u201d the doctor said, \u201cI can\u2019t go with you now, but here\u2019s what you have to do.\u00a0 Go back to your friend and then take your knife and cut a small X over the place where the snake bit.\u00a0 Then put your mouth over the cut and suck out the poison and spit it on the ground.\u00a0 Do you understand this?\u201d\u00a0 The man nodded and ran back to his companion, who by his time was rolling in pain. \u00a0\u201cWhat did the doctor say?\u201d the victim cried out.\u00a0 \u201cWhat did the doctor say?\u201d\u00a0 His friend knelt down next to his friend with tears in his eyes and said, \u201cThe doctor says you\u2019re gonna die.\u201d<\/p>\n
Sometimes our friends disappoint us in our time of need.\u00a0 Sometimes they are unable or unwilling to do what it takes to help us.\u00a0 This is clearly not the case in today\u2019s gospel. The paralyzed man whom Jesus heals is brought forward by four of his friends.\u00a0 When they cannot reach Jesus because of the crowd, they open the roof above him and lower down their friend into the Lord\u2019s presence.\u00a0 The gospel is very clear that the faith that Jesus recognizes is not the faith of the man who is paralyzed, but the faith of his friends.\u00a0 This then is real friendship: physically carrying your friend to the Lord, overcoming every obstacle to healing for the one you love.<\/p>\n
This gospel story emphasizes is our connection to one another and challenges us to support those we love in their need.\u00a0 But it has a very specific need in mind.\u00a0 It challenges us to support those we love in their need to forgive and to be forgiven.\u00a0 This story, like many in the gospels, connects physical healing with spiritual healing.\u00a0 Jesus heals the man physically by forgiving his sins.\u00a0 It is the man\u2019s friends who recognize the need: the healing and the forgiveness of Jesus.\u00a0 Here then is the question for us: how do we support those we love in their need to forgive and to be forgiven?\u00a0 It is a big question, but allow me to suggest two answers.\u00a0 We listen.\u00a0 We pray.<\/p>\n
Whenever anyone is hurt, that hurt wounds a person, and that wound will remain until it is addressed.\u00a0 Such wounds can fester and give birth to anger, to depression, to the desire for revenge.\u00a0 All of us probably know someone who is carrying such a hurt.\u00a0 Some people have carried anger for years.\u00a0 Some people have carried depression so long that it has become second nature. What the gospel suggests is that if we are close enough to such a person, if there is trust between us, we could choose to listen. \u00a0We could say to that person, \u201cFrank, what\u2019s bothering you?\u201d\u00a0 \u201cSally, why are you so angry?\u201d\u00a0 If we find the right moment to pose such a question, it could provide an opportunity for our friend to let the pain out.\u00a0 If that begins to happen, our job is to listen.\u00a0 Not to judge, not to give advice, but simply listen to the pain.\u00a0 To be honest, if you ask an angry people why they are angry, some of that anger can spill on to you.\u00a0 But friends are willing to take that anger.\u00a0 They are willing to suck the poison out so that healing can begin.<\/p>\n
This leads then to the second action we can undertake for those who need to forgive or be forgiven.\u00a0 We can pray.\u00a0 If the relationship allows it, we could say, \u201cI will pray for you, that you might let your anger go.\u201d\u00a0 If the person is a believer, we might even say. \u201cI\u2019m going to pray that you might hand over your hurt to the Lord.\u201d\u00a0 Even if it doesn\u2019t seem wise to make that statement to the person directly, we are always able to pray for the person in our hearts.\u00a0 We can always bring the hurt to the Lord on their behalf.<\/p>\n
This week in our GIFT program we are discussing the sacrament of penance and preparing for the communal celebration of that sacrament on March 14th<\/sup> here in our parish.\u00a0 I am sharing with those who come in the adult session that they could participate in the communal penance service even if they have no sins they wished to confess.\u00a0 They could participate by praying with and for those who do come to confess their sins. In other words, they could come to pray for others.\u00a0 In this sense, what happens in today\u2019s gospel might be seen as the first communal penance service.\u00a0 The friends come to Jesus, not because they need healing, not because they need forgiveness, but because their friend does.\u00a0Therefore you may even choose to come to our communal penance service and pray for someone who is not yet ready to confess their sins.\u00a0 You can come to pray for a member of your family whose hurt is so deep that he or she will not admit it or let anyone touch it.\u00a0 Your role in the communal penance service need not be to receive the sacrament yourself but to pray for all of those who confess their sins, and those who need to confess their sins.<\/p>\n Of course, it is not always easy to listen and to pray for another, it requires effort and patience. It involves risk.\u00a0 But those who hear the gospel know that they are called to such service. They know that listening to and praying for others is not only following the command of Christ. It is also what friends do.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n What a vivid and rich healing story we have in today\u2019s gospel. It comes from the gospel of Mark. Mark is famous for his vivid detail and story telling. He sets before us quite a scene. Jesus, after a journey of healing and teaching, returns to Capernaum, and the whole town turns out. They surround the house where he is staying. You cannot even get in or out through the door. In the midst of all this crowd and confusion, four people come forward carrying their paralyzed friend. They intend to have Jesus heal him but they cannot do so because of the crowd. So they climb up on the roof (and drag their friend up with them) and dig a hole through the roof. The buildings in that part of the world are much like the adobe huts of the Southwest United States. They are made out of clay and soil. So you can dig through the roof. They lowered down their friend on the mat in front of Jesus.\u00a0You can imagine the shock of the people in the house as Jesus is teaching. Suddenly the roof opens and down comes this paralyzed man. But Jesus sees their faith and heals the man. He takes up his mat and walks out.<\/p>\n In such a rich narrative there are many things upon which we could concentrate. But I want to focus on the friends of the paralyzed man. In many ways this story is their story. It is because of them that the healing takes place. The paralyzed man is dependent on them to come to Jesus and it is only because of their persistence and creativity that they are able to lower their friend down into Jesus\u2019 presence. Moreover, it is their faith that makes the miracle possible. In most of the healing stories of the gospels, the sick person is required to have faith. But here in this story, the miracle happens because of the faith of the sick person\u2019s friends. The text is very clear. It says that Jesus seeing their<\/i> faith, said to the man, \u201cMy son, your sins are forgiven.\u201d<\/p>\n The friends of the paralyzed man are an example to us. We are invited, just like the friends in the gospel, to bring people that we love to Jesus. Who are the people in our lives who we want to bring to Jesus? Maybe there is a member of our family, a son or daughter, a sister or a brother, who has no religious faith. We want to take them to the Lord because we know that if they come to believe in Jesus they will experience his presence and his love. Perhaps there is someone we know who is sick, mentally, emotionally, or physically. We want to carry that person before the Lord because we believe that Christ can offer them healing. Maybe there is somebody that we know who is struggling with doubt or failure or guilt or unworthiness. We want to be able to take that person to the Lord so that they might have Christ\u2019s peace. Whenever there is someone we love and that person is in need, we as people of faith want to bring them to the Lord so that they can experience Christ\u2019s love, healing, and peace.<\/p>\n So how do we do that today? Jesus is no longer teaching down the street. What does it mean to bring someone we love to the Lord? There are a variety of ways. We can do it by the love and care we show the person. We can do it through our prayers. We can do it through suggestions we make. We are always making suggestions: read this book, talk to this person, see this doctor. All of us try to reach out to the people we love and try to bring them towards the healing, the loving presence of Christ. As we bring those we love to Jesus, there are two more details in the gospel that are important to keep in mind: faith and numbers.<\/p>\n The friends in the gospel are motivated by faith. They do plenty of actions:\u00a0 carrying, digging, lowering. Yet for all those things that they do, the thing that sets the friends apart is their faith. They believe that Jesus cares for their friend and that Jesus will help him. It is their faith that motivates them and causes them to keep moving forward. We, as we try to bring people to the Lord must have a similar kind of faith. We must believe that the efforts we make are not wasted. We need to believe that Christ sees in our efforts, our love, and our desire to help. So even when it seems that our actions are not having any effect, when the people we are trying to bring to the Lord are not believing, are not being healed, are not finding peace. Even then we continue on with the faith that our attempts are recognized by Christ. We believe that Christ will use whatever efforts we offer to care for the person we love. Faith moves forward even when it\u2019s difficult, even when it seems like no progress is being made.<\/p>\n So faith is primary. But numbers are also important. It was not one friend who brought the paralyzed man to Jesus, but four of them. There is strength in numbers. As we try to bring the people we love to Christ, we should ask for help. We should turn to other people who care about us and share our concerns, ask for their prayers, ask for their advice. We are stronger when we are a community. We are stronger when we depend upon one another. As we try to bring the people we love to the Lord, having others to help us is important. As we carry the people we love before the Lord it is important not to be carrying them alone.<\/p>\n All of us have in our life, people we want to bring before the Lord. We want the people that we care about to experience Christ\u2019s love, Christ\u2019s healing, Christ\u2019s peace. Today\u2019s gospel encourages us to do just that. It calls us to ask other people to help us, and it tells us that we should move always forward in faith. We must believe that our efforts to help others are not wasted. 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Feb. 22, 2009<\/h5>\n
Mark 2:1-12<\/h3>\n